Ladies
I am 31 now ( very old I know) but I was only 19 when I fell pg with DS1. I knew it could happen but with the Ex not wanting to use anything and me being very naive, I didn't say anything. The ex and I split when he found out about DS1 and refused to have anything to do with him.
I was 22 with DD2, and I took the morning after pill!
DS2 was conceived when I was 24, and then 11 months later DD2 was conceived.

I was a later mum with my last two though.

What I am trying to say is, ppl can be rude! If ppl said anything to me, I just turned and walked away, my thoughts were if they were going to be rude, then I can be rude straight back.