See the weird thing was that I barely saw them anyway. I never went out to party unless it was a nice dinner party (I hate the loud music, get trashed and stumbled to bed and not move for 3 days sort of parties) so I'm not sure what some people's issues were lol.

One thing that seems to have come out is that no one thought I'd be a mum. I wanted kids but they all saw me as the quiet studious one that they all thought would do well in studies and have a career because I never spoke about children to them because it was none of their business. None of them can believe I wanted my first by 23, 2 by 25 and 3 by 28 and no more after 30 lol. I want kids first while i study and career later, I feel that's what works FOR ME. I think it's also that most of the people in my schooling circle to have kids, have been party animals and have had kids from one night stands and just want to live off Government payments while they party, theres a mentality that kids seem to be "only by mistake". Most are still studying, don't work, don't have stable relationships and still live at home or in share accomodation to afford a sydney party lifestyle. We have a (now) more stable relationship, bought a house, I'm half way through a uni degree and have a baby on the way any hour/day/week now...

As I said before it's upsetting that I didn't get the support at the start when I really needed it but better late than never!