I can definately agree that peoples opinions do change.. I had some people who said to me that if they were me they'd be having an abortion and then as I got more pregnant they were getting excited and when i had the baby they said oh job well done... but those people I dont really bother talking to anymore because i just think they're not true friends. As for the people who u know who werent interested because u couldnt go out and party and saying it's your fault... they just need to grow up... they sound really immature and im sure that when u do have your baby and start getting out to mums groups and play groups and all those sorts of fun things you'll make a whole new bunch of friends and just forget those other people... because as I said they just need to grow up... good on you both for choosing to bring a precious little life into the world.. I hope you enjoy every minute of it... it can be hard but it's worth it!.