Delara,
Sorry, my post didnt mention that I agree with you that a six year old should be in bed by 8pm on a school night. And I also think it is really important that couples have alone time. But remember, six years old is still very young, and just because her parents seperated before she was born, doesnt mean she isnt mourning the fact she doesnt live with her dad - particularly if many of her friends live with their dads. It is a point of difference that she will become more keenly aware of as she gets older.

good luck with it all!

n2l