Lady z had a good point/idea incomplete. You and DH are a family unit, (something my DH had to convince me of during our journey) and going away at christmas would be perfect to get you out of all get togethers.
I'm sooo sorry you felt like that and that it escalated into an arguement, but you're right at least you dh opened up, and you will both hopefully feel more united in you quest.
I had a similar situation occur, and I only handled it ok cos I was in a 2ww 'hopeful' period. (it didn't work out in the end). This friend hadn't even wanted children her whole adult life then announced twins...with more than one IVF attempt I think, but I thought all the more reason to maybe test the waters and see how we were holding up...not just announce it.
I've been there...we have all been there incomplete. Whole body racked with emotion, chest so heavy it feels like it's sitting in your abdomen...feeling so alone, so bitter, so so upset. Then you feel emotionally drained and exhausted. But posting on here, as you'll see helps to ease the pain, or maybe just shift it. People on here care..it's not just words, because they don't have to bother to respond to posts..they respond because they 'know'..they just 'know' and if you can imagine the biggest group hug you've ever had, this site will provide it. I hope you've managed to get some sleep over the weekend, take care
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