thanks for the quick reply scooby and sorry to hear about your eptoic pregnancy

so if i use my last pessarie tonight, when should af arrive?? how long does it take to get pessaries out of your system??

i was pretty sure fs told me to use pessaries till either af arrived and if it doesnt arrive and get bfp i have to be on the for the next 11 wks??

if i did preg test would pessaries give me a false positive?? sorry probably silly question just never been on pessaries before so dont know how they work. dont think i could actually do a test, just couldnt handle seeing another negitive, would rather wait for af to arrive.

just hoping they are holding off coming till dp gets home which is tomorrow, so he can be here to help pick up the pieces, really couldnt handle getting af while dp is away working, so hopefully if there going to come they will come tomorrow while he is home, so i wont be alone to face it.

thanks again scooby for your reply