thanks heaps for that slyder & Mel1977

i am not having a bt done, fs has never asked to do one on any of our cycles including this one, he just said come back if we get positive hpt??

i am still not bleeding but i honestly feel like i have af just with no blood iukwim??
i have pains and have migrain which is all normal when i have af, but i just dont have blood yet??

thanks again for your lovely replies

if we had money i would be doing ivf staight away, but with our income we wont be doing it for a few yrs and we dont have private health cos we cant afford the mthly repayments, plus to be honest we would never have a few thousand up front to pay for ivf even if we would get most of it back, its a matter of having the money there first which we would never have. oh well not to worry tomorrow has got to be better? right?