I'm another who'd be very interested in the details. We have male factor infertility which was the deciding factor in us doing IVF/ICSI instead of other less invasive methods of assisted conception. DH appears to take all of the IVF stuff in his stride and doesn't really talk about how it effects him, but I know it's got to get to him in some way.

The one thing that I do know has effected him was our miscarriage. At the time he hid it all, he was being strong for me to try to hold me together in some way. Problem is that now it leads me to thinking that it didn't get to him at all. He got really angry when I suggested that during an argument the other day. It would be really helpful for someone to give me a little window into DH's brain to know how he's feeling, especially when he feels he's got to keep it inside to be able to support me.

BW