We then began IVF and that was hell. It was hell because my wife was going through the whole IVF process because of me! I decided to deal with this the only way I knew how. By not saying anything about it and pretend it wasn't there. I didn't feel I had the right to be emotional about it. My wife needed my support. She needed me to be strong as she went through the emotionally trying procedures.
This is Aaron all over! Although every now & then he would mention about how terrible things were because of him If I got really upset he would occassionally say well if it wasn't for me then you'd never be in this position. I don't care what put me in that position and I had/have absolutely no blame for him whatsoever, just one of those things.... I wish he would see it that way.

Although he is pretty stoked that it worked first go