I think I'm just now realising that my FS is really odd. He can sometimes focus so much on the mental/emotional side of things that he neglects the physical. To the extent that he was so insistant on me being in the right frame of mind post-miscarriage before we attempt another cycle that he wouldn't even listen to my questions about physical/medical causes for the miscarriage. It's something that drives me batty at times, but we've discovered that we can get the physical/medical looked into with another FS, and we'll resume cycling with our regular one when we have all the results.

BW