Welcome Mikael

I'm interested in this thread, I *may* get the book as well - for DH to read, we have to go through IVF because DH had the snip a year before we met, we've discussed the reversal option with our FS but he advised us that we'd probably only have a 15% success rate (of the reversal actually working) and then have to worry about birth control etc after we'd had kids.

So while it *is* his fault that we have to go through IVF it isn't because of infertility on his part (he's already successfully fathered 3 children - hence the snip).

I know DH regrets the surgery, mainly because of what I'm going to need to go through to actually have children, but I don't think it is that bad, I know the hormones will knock me about (and I'll probably end up taking it all out on him), but at least we can be prepared for it (and plan for it).

We're having ICSI & I get to sit in on the extraction of his sperm, we will only use his sperm and we will only have 1 harvest for me - we've already discussed this and agreed on it.