Dear Mon,

I am sorry you have had such a crappy day! I can totally undertsand your being upset and sometimes tears help... Sometimes I get myself into a real state though! (poor DH he is in for a terrible time when the drungs kick in but he is bracing himself!!!)

I think your hubby just hates to see you so sad. He doesn't want you to be in pain either, but as a man they want to fix it all - quickly. I think that is why he said it at the time he did. He saw the problem and thought he could magically fix it by saying he had had enough. Even though he didn't really mean it. I hope you can relax and really take it easy over the weekend, don't do anything you don't want to! I think a large dose of Dirty Dancing, Ghost, Beaches and the like are in order.

Rets up Mon, I'll check in with you soon - Rach