Kinda glad that Xmas is out of the way! The day was good, was really busy in the kitchen helping my mum (as we had it there) and washing up. DH had the sh**ts that I was the only one helping - well with my sis looking after her bubs and SIL tired from her hosting Xmas eve dinner it only made sense! But was better actually as kept my mind off things - in a way. Well until my SIL made a comment at lunch about my sis and how exciting that her son is here and gushed and gaaed and said 'and this time last year you were PG'. It just put me in a dull mood! Like I needed to be reminded. It p****ed me off as I felt it was very insensitive of her to make a comment like that knowing about my situation. My DH agreed, but told me to not let it get to me, but you just cant help it, can you! Esp. when she kept going on and then said now there are more mums and dads ... la la la! Like please, any excuse really to not hang around the table and go wash dishes etc was better!
Told DH that next year if not PG we'll go away so that we can avoid the whole family thing! So BW I reckon you did a great thing!
MWL - hope you got some answers when you went for your BT. It's hard. I dont think I was upset the first time, but more angry when AF came. I was more upset when I found out that of the 14 embies that fertilised, only 1 made it! So when went for transfer I didnt get a vibe that my embie would make it! I think every1 deals with it in different ways! But it so helps to share your experience and vent here! Every1 understands and makes things easier here! I hope you and DH are doing OK!
Slyder - nothing worse than hearing when some1 - especially close to you - conceives straight away. That happened to my sis last year and her son is now 5 months old. Shannon - I can also relate to you in that way ... esp. when you are TTC at the same time, and have to go through seeing that person close to you be PG and then give birth - it is such a constant reminder and can hurt. I love my nephew to bits though, so dont get me wrong, they bring so much joy!
Peta - hope the 2WW isnt making you stir crazy - at least the time is flying! Well for me, so I hope it feels that way for you.
Jbub - GL with the injections! Its so exciting when it all starts! Make sure you rest and arent planning anything stressful, as it can make it hard emotionally! Wishing you all the best.
Miss C - your honeymoon sounds like it was divine! I know what you mean though about not taking your drugs on time, that happened to me as well! I am sure all will be fine! My DH said, why dont you just set an alarm! I will probably do that next time.
Big cheerio to Dusty, BG, BW, TL, HB and anyone else lurking! Hope you all got through Xmas OK! And if you arent back at work (like me), hope you are having a nice relaxing break!
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