Thank you TL, Paula, Belle and Numa for your thoughts and advice . All of you are right, it is a decision that we will need to make together about what's best for us. Numa I read with interest your previous posts, and we too have unexplained infertility. I have often layed in bed at night self diagnosing myself, and have often thought my DF's little guys, mustn' t like my little eggies (because I do ovulate) - I always use to joke about it and never really thought this could actually be a problem, but after reading your posts, I realise it actually can happen. I don't mean to sound horrible but I'm actually relieved because I always thought I wasn't normal or something - as DF has two children already from previous marriage. I sometimes get in that mindset of 'why is this happening to me?' But I realise that it's not just happening to me. Wishing you all kind journeys and lots of