Now I've got some privay I can post properly....

janee I'm sorry about the old AF! I know how awful it is when you realise it's coming and there's nothing you can do to stop it. As for IVF, when I first started I was really excited. I thought "YES!! Now I'm going to have a baby, at last" Unfortunately I have not had any luck as yet but I am hopeful that I will be one of the many women it works for. the only advise I can give you is to get ready for it now, in terms of diet and fitness etc. Apart from the good it does you, I always feel at least I'M doing something to help the IVF rather that relying on the drugs and an embryologist. Good luck with you decisions and the future.

Mrs Mac I don't understand your bleeding either, and getting it checked out is the best thing to do. My mom tells me that she had a lot of trouble conceiving me, and that she took Clomid. BUT... she says she couldn't even get going on it because she bled for 13 weeks solid. She had laparoscopies to find out why and everything In the end it stopped by itself and she got pregnant the following month with yours truly!!! She says it was her bodies way of getting rid of something or sorting itself out so try not to worry too much