hmmm, we don't have a "clinic" as it is - it's all done at the local hospital! the "collection room" that they use is actually the same room they use for transfers, and has an ensuite, chair, tv, double bed - the whole nine yards! not that DH has needed it - his sample is always produced at home and just handed to the nurse when we get there (and i choose to drive, so HE has to hang on to it! )

Our FS always calls my name from the chart, but greets DH first, always speaks to both of us, asks directly if DH has any questions. during u/s, DH was writing out the results for the nurse, watching the scan. during ET, he was told where to stand to get the best vantage point for watching the u/s of the embie being transferred - he had a better view than me!

overall - i think our clinic has been amazing at making sure DH has been involved. the nurse even rings DH for some things cos she knows i work and he is able to answer when i can't!