SIL said that "you two are selfish for not having had kids yet, and that you better stop thinking about yourselves and start thinking about the family and have kids. After all how hard can it be, I fell pregnant accidentily, three times, you'd think you two would at least be able to have one"
Taleutia, that is terrible, I'm sorry you had to hear that. It would be so tempting to tell her where to stick it, but I think a lot of us bite our tongue because we don't want to tell them we're TTC.

I've had a few choice phrases from workmates as well. Last April three of my colleagues announced their pregnancies within 3 weeks of each other, and two people turned to me, in front of everyone, and made comments about "it'll be you next" and "you just need to sit in this chair and you'll be pregnant." Little did they know that I went home and cried that evening. Unfortunately the only way to get them to shut-up is to tell them that we're TTC and going through IVF, which usually silences them.

Sue, I have also tried banning my Mum from asking about IVF, so she says "so, how are you doing this month?" as if she's just interested in how I am generally.