Hi David

The thing that I hate the most is the loneliness. I am in a situation where my beloved is the one with the fertility issues and it has been his decision not to tell anyone that we are TTCing at all let along going down the IVF path (we even had to choose a fertility specialist that was in the same building as a physio so that he could explain away visits if seen in the vicinity - I am still waiting for him ot ask me if we can enter through seperate doors!) This is his choice and I support it as being important to him but I find that it leaves me feeling a little lonely as I can't chat to anyone about it except in forums like BB.

I think that an article on how to deal with male infertility would be fantastic.

I (seceretly) call it Henry VIII syndrome - and while I am pretty sure that DP isn't going to cut off my head I think that sometimes he considers it! I would love to have more information on how to chat to DP about how he feels about it and also how I feel about it.