Tubal Reversals #13

[Mumof8]

You have done 23 posts so i would just ask.
My daughter is only just coming around now she has been very jealous.
Being the only girl in our house for 13 years a guess she was thinking she
would get left out now. She would walk passed the nursey and say Im so jeaous look
at how pretty and pink it is! I said you had the very same when you were a baby.
I was a single mum from the very start but i worked my butt off to give her evrything she ever needed and wanted

[mummy25]

Hayley has been Jealous from the start, she was a only child untill she was 4, and had everything....
being the only grandchild and great grandchild she was spoilt...
had every playgym and toy you could imagine.
but she thinks she can have everything and gets really peed when I say No....
(thursday night she wanted to go shopping with a girlfriend at the centre, with only $5 and planned to stay for 4 hours -- walking around apparently and I said No sounds too suss to me, she ranted and raved and cried and then cancelled with her friend and ignored me for 2 hours... (to me sounded like they were meeting boys and she is only 13 and I been there done that and know what we can get up to at that age from personal expierence.)
must be age and yes bit of jealosy...

[mummy25]

try Involving her in the birth in some way.
if she cant go into theatre with you both, then have her there with a friend/family member and tell her she will be the first to see bub and hold her (apart from you and hubby).
when she is born, get hubby to take her out to her for a hold or take her to the nursery to help him dress her or bath her (if they still do that) as we usually spend alot of time in recovery...
up here in one hospital they brought them into recovery for a feed, and in the last one they refused to bring bub in full stop and they had to give her formula as I was in there for like 2 and a half hours (had a reation to the drugs)....

[mummy25]

need 50 posts not 10 to become bellybelly user not registered.
got to keep typing....

[kiya]

yes you had better get those fingers tappen....LOL.....cheers kiya

[Mumof8]

How weird Ebb was the first grandchild and great grangchild on both sides and was the only one for 4.5 years. She was so very spoilt aswell she had everything AND still does(even false nails). I was tying to get permission for her to come in to the op with me and Rob too. But your only aloud 1 person in there unless your lucky and ask the doc when your about to go in. Ive been lucky with my c/s cause they have let me have two people both times(different hospital this time).
If she cant then i asked her to wait right out side the door so when bub comes out she is to go with her and not leave her till im back in the ward.
I told her she has to give her her first bath and feed if im not there to feed her

[mummy25]

I still spoil hay too (to a degree) i dont give her everything she wants as I just cant afford it...
But she gets more than my other children.

[mummy25]

Have Just be given the go ahead from my partner to do the IVF...
It's official.....
he researched it on the net and said this morning I could do it.

[kiya]

excellent news mummy25....kiya

[Mumof8]

WOOHOO!Thats awesome news. Isnt it funny how we always seem to get our own way

[mummy25]

Yes LOL, It takes a few days sometimes a week but I always win....
was thinking today that when we went to buy a new house, the one we brought was the very one he hated and would not even consider.
A few days of sulking and winging and I won......
Now he loves the house and would not swap it for the world....

[mummy25]

Kiya you going to do IVF this month too?????

[Mumof8]

Mummy25 you are a bellybelly member now!
Yes Kiya that sounds like a real good IDEA!

[mummy25]

Coooooool, maybe I can upload some pictures....

[mummy25]

have uploaded pictures of my house and the converted garage, when you look from the front of the house, the converted garage is both the big wndows you see, so plenty of room to make 2 bedrooms, (Just need a wall to seperate) then this will be a 6 bedroom home....
plenty of room for bub....
Im am off to call the IVF clinic weastmead for my first appointment, will let you all know when it is....

[mummy25]

westmead (I cant spell today, Just came off night duty so not quite with it)....

[mummy25]

I have appointment with dr melhem on 21st april at 12:15am (first available appointment). have to see him first and take referral for both of us on this day from our local doctor.
mumof5: why do we have to see gyno when we know why? we cant fall?
does he start the process? or is he the one who will look after us during the whole thing?
how long after I see him will treatment roughly start?
costs $250 to see him for 45 min's... (but get good rebate from medicare).
All I know is that the fertility centre said I cant see them untill I have seen him. (even Know I AM getting referal from our ocal doctor, they said i need that too)...
does craig need to go to this appointment, they have asked for him too but he has no problems with his count or fertility as we have proof of that x 5....

[Mumof8]

Yep you must both see the the specialist first and he refferes you to westmead.
I seen DR Tien-Ming Hng at Wentworthville he was pretty quick to get into (02)96364500. You must have a full blood works done to check for Aids and all that stuff. AND im sorry to tell hubby but he also must have his goods tested just to make sure there still working :Lol: which im sure they are but you hate to do the hole thing and give your sample at the end and there all not swimming!!
He has to get all yours and hubbies history,so pretty much all he is doing is the gorund work for the hospital. We had 3 appointments with him only cause i didnt take Rob to the first appointment. So you should only have to go the first time then go back for your results and to start the pill so that will only be about two weeks. They wanted me to wait another month but i pushed cause i new my period was pretty close. Once you start your period you have to call westmead and they normally get you in within a couple of days. And both of you need to get a referal from your GP or just one with both names on it