Tubal Reversals #14

[mummy25]

onemore - if your hubby is anything like mine, he will be thinking of the cost If ivf....
If I was to have ivf in newcastle I would have to have $8000 to begin (thought medicare gives me some of it back) but to go to westmead (where mumof5 went) it's only $1450 which is a big difference.
I wanted to do ivf here as it was closer to me and he said no to the cost.
I spoke to an Ivf doctor the other day for 45 minutes on the phone and she was really good and explained everything to me.
she said the first month is the worst (if ivf fails then they use your eggs fro the first month and only have to put them back in).
It's also alot cheaper if you have to go back after your first attempt.
All the men have to do is give their goods, we as women do the hard part.
(and the no sex thing works and so does the "I'f you wont help me then I'll buy some sprem from them, they do that sort of thing you know"""" (he looked that one up and found you could get donor sprem, LOL).

[Mumof8]

Mummy... Iam getting nervous but only the op side of things cause i get so scared and that spinal(ouch)not looking forward to that again but better then 4 hour of induced labour.
I so cant wait to meet this little no name girl. Its been such a long time since ive even held a little girl let a lone changed ones nappy.
I kind of feel bad for my other daughter because when i had her i was to to young.
It was all about managing and getting thru everyday back then.
I have changed so much as a mother now. More loving and more mummy like if you know what i mean.
More into the kids and doing things with them and for them.
I know my daughter doesnt remember but i do.
Off to the hospital on wednesday so im hoping to get some more answers

[kiya]

Hello to you all, this is kiya's (Nikki's) hubby here. Just wanted to pop in and say hi and to also ask that you help her through a really hard time at the moment. Her dreams of having the IVF treatment have been put on hold for the time being. This has upset her very much as she was meant to be starting very shortly. They have found once again some abnomral cervical cells in her pap smear. She had been holding off from having it p[urely for wanting to start the IVF process. Nik was also scared that they would find bad cells again. Her doctor doesn't seem to think they are going to be a problem and that they may not be a true result as she had this once before and then when they tested her several times later she tested normal. She has asked me to say hello to you all and that she will be back on to chat to you all soon. Regards Shadow (kiya's hubby)

[Mumof8]

Hey Kiya's hubby and welcome to our girly chats!
Im so sorry your plans have been put on hold but just remember all good things come to those who wait.
I too had a pap smear when i was about to start my IVF(routine) and mine did come back with some abnormal cell but they said i could go ahead.
I just have to have another one done as soon as bub comes. I hope she can have the pappy net screening done to give her a better result.
Tell her im thinking of her and to keep her chin up!

[onemore]

Hey shadow, send our love to kiya and let her know we are all thinking of her..
I know how much you guys want this. that all is good and you can get back on track asap...
Hi to everyone else hope you had a good weekend.
Em how you holding up? hope your feeling a bit better

[crazymum2]

Shadow, I hope that the next test results will be all clear. I will be thinking of you and Kiya.

I have finally got hubby around to my way of thinking even though it has taken ages to do so. I hope that he does not back out again. Why is it that it the men that have trouble committing to this? I wonder what they are thinking of. I do not want to leave it more than two years to do so.

Em, I do go pass your place on a regular basis to get to the Northern Road. I hope that you are feeling better. When is you next appointment?

I will try and get back here more often.

I hope that everyone else is well.

I have to go as Aaron is unsettled.

[mrsjac]

hi everyone just to let you all know that my niece opened her eyes to my mum the other day they were not wide open though. but still that is awesome i'm so happy. now i can get on with trying again!! this friend i talk to on msn she had her tubes reversed and she started taking this stuff called blackmores angus vitex and she said that helped her get pregnant she's due in oct. and now she's going to send it to me so i can try it .ok talk again soon hiya shadow let kiya know that i'm thinking of you and her at this time and the next test comes back all clear!!!