Tubal Reversals #14

[mummy25]

Kiya - Thankyou... and I would not tell you to shut up LOL....
I think our problem is the talking bit we never really have done that it has always been him wanting to call the shots.
Things have to change as I am not coping with it all.
I know the baby thing is stressing him out but I think it is on a long list of other things stressing him out.
The wine bit sounds good he would be in that one but I hate the stuff may have to make mine some baileys...
tomorrow i am going to just stop smoking, I'm just going to do it.....
They are costing us too much money and i am having a hard time kicking this cold and I am sure the smoking has something to do with it, plus I am not ready to die and knowing my luck I wold get cancer from them or something.
first thing tomorrow i'm off to the chemist to get some patches and that is that.
I think that will help things alot if I kick tht habbit as he hates it and the cost of it....
I think I am going to go back to work fulltime, I dont want too but it is the only way I can feel confident we wont loose our house with all these Interest rate rises.
we are only scraping by now one more rise and I think we would have to sell.

[mummy25]

congrats Kiya but dont get too sick of those doctors offices Just yet, you have a baby to make remember....
Thanks for Your advice kiya I do feel a little better with all this after reading your reply.

where is Mumof5 she is very quiet......

[kiya]

you are most welcome......if and whenever i can help or a shoulder to cry or an ear to listen i am always here or not to far away.....i know what you mean about kicking the habit.....it will be 7yrs for me this year.....i had to do it cold turkey and it was the hardest thing i could have done, but i am so much better for it........i love baileys......new years i was having them as shots mixed with butterscotch schnapps........oh was soooooo yummy.......i know all about stressing about houses and mortgages......we are thinking the same.......but we know if we pinch the purse strings just that little bit tighter, we can build our new house on our property and then things will be so much better......my area was such a cheap area to live in when we first got here......you could buy acreage for $25,000 for a couple of acres, now you are pushing $140,000 for 1.5acres and that is just land these days.......all the big properties are selling to developers and last count as of last week, there is soon to be 9 estates in the area within 12-16mths......some of them have only city sized blocks 600 - 800sqm but the price is very city - $120k - $160k......gone are the days of simple country living......hang in there mummy25, things will work out, i know they will....they always do in the end cheers kiya

[Mumof8]

,Mummy25-Chin up mate things will get better soon they always do. I sometimes question myself but things are better off the way they are and i just have to live with it.
I went cold turkey too.Its been 2.5years now and there are sometimes when i really miss it(like when the kids are driving me crazy) but there is no way i will give into the dirty habbit again. Buy lots of gum just the normal stuff.
Oh Kiya the c0ck sucking cowboys are so yum arent they(baileys+butterscotch)
got very out of it one night on them. I miss having a drink every now and then never have been a big drinker tho. You know 2 and im under the table kind of thing.
Went for a hospital appt today and im so over that place and the people in it
but they have changed my c/s date to the 1st of May. Oh yay i so cant wait to be normal again

[mrsjac]

hi everyone well we got a payout and we have to buy our car back of the insurance company which sucks!! wow em not long now geez it's gone quick. can't wait for the announcement. the first time i went in to hospital to have my reversal i had this annoying cough and they sent me home because they said it would've been to risky anyway i went and brought some garlic and horseradish +c complex capsules cenovis they are pretty good so i started taking them and by the next time it was gone.talk soon

[Mumof8]

Mrsjac- Im glad you got your pay out so you can get another car.
I'd die without a car and theres no $hit show in hell i would be walking anywhere.
Wow Kiya so much development going on but thats still very cheap land prices.
City prices are so much more then that. Our last block we brought was $210 for a
758msqu block that was at regatta waters at oxenford in 2005 so i'd hate to think what they are now

[mummy25]

I too love the cowboys (the drink that is)....
Anyday I would drink them over any drink.
I too use mumof5's name for the drink....
quite often i have asked a bar man for some coc# ######## cowboys....
we sond like we would party well together....

A few cowboys and I'm a gonna......

[mummy25]

Mumof5 have you named that BUB yet???