Hey Kiya's hubby and welcome to our girly chats!
Im so sorry your plans have been put on hold but just remember all good things come to those who wait.
I too had a pap smear when i was about to start my IVF(routine) and mine did come back with some abnormal cell but they said i could go ahead.
I just have to have another one done as soon as bub comes. I hope she can have the pappy net screening done to give her a better result.
Tell her im thinking of her and to keep her chin up!