Hi becc,

Sorry that you are having a bad day and you dont sound like a pity party. You have helped me through some rough times and i want to do that for you too. I am glad that you are being honest and telling me how you really feel because otherwise i cant try to help you. Also you need to get things off your chest.

You are extremely right to feel ripped off. This is exactly the way i described it to one of our midwives at the hospital. Other people dont deserve to have children more than you. You havent done anything wrong. I feel exactly the same about it being rubbed in my face. One of the girls at work talks about her baby who was born last august right in front of me and then trys to come and pretend that she cares. Also i never really realised how many prego people there are, now everywhere that i go they stick out like beacons in the night.

Well since you are on messenger now i will talk to you there.

Love Sarah