remember we tend to hurt those closes to us as deep down we know that they will still be there for us when the dust settles...


Its the pain and rejection you will have to try to disassociate with your baby. YOU take it personally but they are thinking of you not your baby.

I had the same thing (different but the same) when we fell with our third. But my sister and SIL couldnt fall pregnant and had been trying for a long time. They both were hurtful and cut us off and our older kids, and it seemed as tho everyone in our families had taken their side, THere was no celebration or congratulations. But **** 6 months after he was born and they were both pregnant they were all lovey dovey like all that pain had never happened!

Same sister also thought i only feel pregnant with my first to ruin her wedding..... women

I have had two losses and both times i have had unreasonable and unjustifiable thoughts or feelings towards other people..... Its greif, its raw and sadly she is living it!

No real advice in all that dribble....

I feel terrible for her but i also feel very sad for you!


CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR PREGNANCY!