My step sister knowingly fell pregnant less than 8 weeks after jack was born. She made my mum tell me because she couldn't herself.
I msged her and told her that while I'm happy they're extending their family at the moment I'm not in any head space to be able to deal the pregnancy. ( the thought of seeing her hugely pregnant at Christmas when I can't have my beautiful boy made me feel physically ill) and I told her that I'd need to take a step back from them for a while while I learnt coping strategies and that I was hurt that she couldn't tell me herself.
She blew up at me and asked me if I wanted her to get rid of the baby so I could have another one ect and that I was going to cause rifts in the family.
This was a few weeks ago, I haven't spoken to her since but my entire step family has taken it upon themselves to rid on Facebook and basically slag me off to anyone who will listen.
I shouldn't let them get to me but hurts knowing I've done nothing wrong yet I'm still the bad person.
Mum thinks that now that I'm pregnant everything is roses again, but it's not I don't want to see them again. Not after everythings been said.
Sorry to hijack thought u might want to see it from this side of the fence. Not that you'd ever be so rude to your sister. Mum and her dp were originally shocked and I think more upset for me than anything but they're embracing her new baby just like they are our new baby.