Kirsty,
How sorry I am to read of the loss of your little 'Speckle'. Nothing I can possibly say will make the pain go away but rest assured I am thinking of you. I lost my son Luke due to a cord accident last September. It too was firmly wrapped around his neck. Just a very unfortunate accident. Still, knowing that doesn't nescessarily make it any easier.
My thoughts are with you both and in my mind I am giving you a big hug.
Debbie