BW, I am glad that you have now passed the emotional stage and can look at the situation with new perspective. I don't know whether its lucky for you to have him or him to have a patient like you with sharp observations...at the end of the day, as far as it does the trick, I am happy for you. It is actually surprising that our judgement could be constantly evolving, like my boss always told me, 'if you are not sure about anything, there is always tomorrow morning....you could have a brand new perspective'.

Getting back to the original question - I suspect that if there's any increased chance of miscarrying with IVF, it's probably more related to the underlying condition that made IVF necessary rather than the fact that it was IVF. Make sense?
BW
Totally make sense, but as for my case is 'unexplained infertility', so its just doing my head in a bit...IYKWIM... oh, well, some of the questions in our head probably will never be anwsered anyway...so we just can't be too hard on ourselves, can we?

HAve a good night!