HI Gem,
I'm so sorry to hear of your m/c. Everyone here has given you wonderful advice. I hope the weekend has given you a bit of time to sort through your feelings.

Make sure you talk to the staff at the hospital if you are unclear about anything- The more that you know about what is going on, and the procedures they may need to do, the more confortable you will feel.

ALso, please don't beat yourself up about this. Unfortunately many women have m/c (I had a VERY early m/c), for MANY different reasons, even if they do ALL the 'right' things, and unless you are aware of any medical issues, you have a HUGE chance of having a H&H pregnancy in the future.

Take care,
R