Gem - Many people have suffered miscarriages and gone on to have perfectly healthy children afterwards. True, some do have miscarriages afterwards but in many of these cases, an actual medical reason can be identified.

I'm sure there was nothing that you could have done to 'cause' the miscarriage. Many miscarriages end because the body has identified that the bub potentially has a genetic abnormality.

I wish I could say that I understand but as I have not experienced a miscarriage myself, it would be unfair and insensitive for me to claim I understand how you feel. I will say however not to beat yourself up for crying and being emotional. You've obviously experienced a great loss that will take some time to heal. It's fantastic that you have such a wonderful man who is supporting you through your loss together.