Miscarriage/Loss General Discussion #1

[Alison1973]

ha ha yes Pacrak I think I would frrrrreak if I fell with twins at my age (38), yikes! She said she cried all day at the shock but is happy with the idea now. I'm so sorry about your horsie, that is a very long time to have a pet, my heart bleeds for you, I know when my boy goes I'm going to be devastated, they are a big part of your life. The only way I can console is by saying that it was better to have them for that long than not at all and what a wonderful life they had with us. I hope your other horsie gets over his fretting for his mate soon too. How long do horses normally live for generally? As for you I hope AF stays away, perhaps your horsie that passed can come back as a new life for you (hope that doesn't sound weird but you know what I mean. xx

[Miss.September]

LOL, sounds weird but I get what you mean. Funny though, I learned on the weekend that the day he died, a friend's horse had a foal a few hours later and she couldn't help but wonder. They can live to up around 30, so we knew that every day was a bonus heading towards then.

I want AF to stay away. So badly. Boobs are hurting. Water tastes like metal, but we missed DTD on O so I think it's all in my head.

[Saffy]

Hi girls,

Alison-thats a great story about the twins, I know a few people who went for number 4 baby and got twins instead lol. Just one would be fine for me!

pacrak- poor horsie, thats sad. I hope your symptoms are real not imaginary, mine are usually in my head!

I am just suffering through AF, she is being a bit mean ( heavy), but not really painful for once. Hopefully I will O late next week when DH and I are away for his 40th, usually i O when we are in the middle of a busy week on different shifts etc so BDing is a major chore and stress, what a great 40th pressie if we got UTD!!

[chepie]

Hi ladies thinking of you all and hoping that life is being kind...

Pak - so sorry to read about your horse. Hope you that you are okay xxoo

Saffy - Hope the witch is easing of you oxoxo

Alison- wow what a story hope your okay too hun...

Mis - how are you hun?

Hi to all


AFM - at the tail end of AF not sure if we will ttc this month - though knowing me I will give in and say yes!! My head is all over the place at the moment....so not sure.... love to all

[Miss.September]

Saffy - GRR to a mean AF. As if her appearance isn't bad enough! Have a lovely time away, happy 40th to your DH!

Chepie - It's hard to make the TTC decision again isn't it? My last m/c was in April, and it took me a few months to get my head around it again. Was hard for DH because he just wanted to move on and fast, but he understood where I was. It's difficult when you react to something and it's completely opposite ends of the scale.

[Miss.September]

AF is here again. I'm feeling a bit tired of it all. Tired of planning for the next cycle, for figuring out dates. Fast forwarding nine months to figure out what a due date would be. I just want it to happen. But then I know if it does happen, I'm going to beside myself with worry. I hate this. I just want to finish our family now. I'm ready, DH is ready and the gap from DD is getting bigger. I don't want to be in this mindset either. If we can't have another, then I know I'll be okay with that, but right now my body is teasing me with the fact that it can "try" to do what it's supposed to do. I don't even really know what I'm trying to say. I'm overtired. Sorry for the selfish post.

[Alison1973]

Hi PacRakMG - don't worry I feel exactly the same as you and we are in sync practically, I've started spotting today so AF is around the corner - we didn't try this past month because I had to have a break after the last mc, I'm seeing the FS next week, I hope he will let me get straight into it because like you the gap is getting bigger and bigger. We'll get there mate. xx