Miscarriage/Loss General Discussion #1

[Miss.September]

Saffy - GRR to a mean AF. As if her appearance isn't bad enough! Have a lovely time away, happy 40th to your DH!

Chepie - It's hard to make the TTC decision again isn't it? My last m/c was in April, and it took me a few months to get my head around it again. Was hard for DH because he just wanted to move on and fast, but he understood where I was. It's difficult when you react to something and it's completely opposite ends of the scale.

[Miss.September]

AF is here again. I'm feeling a bit tired of it all. Tired of planning for the next cycle, for figuring out dates. Fast forwarding nine months to figure out what a due date would be. I just want it to happen. But then I know if it does happen, I'm going to beside myself with worry. I hate this. I just want to finish our family now. I'm ready, DH is ready and the gap from DD is getting bigger. I don't want to be in this mindset either. If we can't have another, then I know I'll be okay with that, but right now my body is teasing me with the fact that it can "try" to do what it's supposed to do. I don't even really know what I'm trying to say. I'm overtired. Sorry for the selfish post.

[Alison1973]

Hi PacRakMG - don't worry I feel exactly the same as you and we are in sync practically, I've started spotting today so AF is around the corner - we didn't try this past month because I had to have a break after the last mc, I'm seeing the FS next week, I hope he will let me get straight into it because like you the gap is getting bigger and bigger. We'll get there mate. xx

[Miss.September]

Thanks Alison

[Maruschke]

So sorry Pac

[chepie]

Pac - oh hun I totally get where you are coming from, I am already working out my dates if we got pregnant this month (AF just finished for goodness sake!!) when our 12 week mark would be and that would be at the end of the year and how can we get our testing done to make sure all is ok, then when I can finish work - blah blah blah blah ... Gee am I over the top much??? Obsessed much - I have 2 pregnancy tests burning a hole in the cupboard - I have officially gone crazy.... And then to top it all off I freak out and go ummm nup not going to try!!! Sooo yep I get it totally - oxoxoxo

Hi to everyone else I hope you are going ok and think of you all often and hope that life is being kind xxx

[Miss.September]

Thanks girls, glad I'm not the only one! Wish we didn't have to though.

[Maruschke]

Pac - oh hun I totally get where you are coming from, I am already working out my dates if we got pregnant this month (AF just finished for goodness sake!!) when our 12 week mark would be and that would be at the end of the year and how can we get our testing done to make sure all is ok, then when I can finish work - blah blah blah blah ... Gee am I over the top much??? Obsessed much - I have 2 pregnancy tests burning a hole in the cupboard - I have officially gone crazy.... And then to top it all off I freak out and go ummm nup not going to try!!! Sooo yep I get it totally - oxoxoxo

Hi to everyone else I hope you are going ok and think of you all often and hope that life is being kind xxx

I do exactly the same!