Hi all,

janeo - its so nice to hear that you knew someone that went through a similar experience that then went on to have a beautiful healthy baby. It really boosts the spirit. I too hope that we all go on to have healthy baby's soon. I am still taking my Blackmores pregnancy to keep up the folate. I have also found that this has brought DH and I so much closer than we have been for a while. It's funny how life takes over and you lose sight of each other for a while. Things like this can either make or break a relationship and the one thing I am greatful for from all this is that it has made ours stronger.

AnnaT/nikilove...well everyone - I'm so sorry for you all. I'm not sure how much support I will be having only just gone through this myself but i'll try to help as much as I can.

Niki - I'm sorry you can't talk talk to your husband about what has happened. Give him time to grieve in his own way and hopefully he will open up soon. In the meantime feel free to vent as much as you like here. That's what everyone here is for. It's not good to keep things bottled up so share it around and we'll help. One thing I am certain of is that you have to stop blaming yourself. It wasn't anything you did, or didn't do.

All my best to everyone.

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Matthew - 5/3/05
11/1/07 - 13 weeks and 3 days