Sara - so sorry for what you are going through. my heart breaks for you.

Keike - There is no reason for you to feel you should give away your baby stuff. People will give her lots of gifts and be buying her things regardless of whether you hand over your baby things. She wouldnt even notice. I am sure your mum meant well, but I dont understand why she would suggest it. Did she think it would be closure for you or helpful emotionally??
I really hope you dont feel pressured to do something you dont want to do.

HPL - always thinking of you and sending cyber hugs your way. See you back here hopefully on a happier thread when its right for you.

AFM - not much going on, just wanted to check in and see how everyone was doing.