Kristy and Mel
The loss of your beautiful babies is a pain that never ends. It just gets easier to deal with on a day to day basis. Be kind to yourself and give yourself time to heal and grieve.

DH and I lost our first baby nearly a year ago. We TTC almost immediately for the same reasons as many others ... we wanted a baby, we were ready for a baby and a new pregnancy was in no way going to alter our feelings for Caitlyn (I now know 4 angel Caitlyn's - with different spellings of course!!) It has taken us much longer to conceive than we hoped but we are currently pregnant and hoping for a positive outcome this time. I am terrified.

We took many photos and made frames with photos of Caitlyn's hands and feet and her name and birthdate in the centre. We gave one each to our parents, my sister, one of DH's brothers and my best friend who was to be our support person and was present for Caitlyn's birth anyway. Our framed picture sits on the sideboard next to Caitlyn's ashes in the cute little urn we chose. We named a star after her on her due date which will be a permanent reminder that she is always around and we can *see* her each year too.

There are many ways to remember your angel and to keep them with you. There are many of us to support you on the path of healing.