I must be lucky. Dh helps with the housework, cooking, caring for and disciplining the children. On the days he works he does the washing, takes the rubbish out, helps me do the shopping and does anything else I need him to do. On the weekends when he isn't working, he makes dinner, helps with any housework that needs doing, mows the lawn, helps with the kids, if he goes out he takes one of the kids with him. He goes over to mates houses sometimes but normally he does the dishes before he goes and asks me if I need him to do anything and if I mind him going.
That's fantastic JoJo. Never take it for granted. Does he work full-time? It seems all my friends have partners like this. Ho hum....woe is me....
No amount of training will change my DH. No matter what strategy I try it comes off as nagging or that I can't handle things and no husband likes a nagging wife now do they.