My husband works 4 days on and 4 days off.. During the working week he doesn't do much except help put the kids to bed and on his night shifts he cooks tea..

On his days off he cooks tea every night so 6 nights out of 8 he cooks. I wash up for all meals breakfast lunch dinner ect.. We share the kid duties except for our bub. I usually do all the caring of her as he is busy with the boys. He also mows the yard every week.. We both do the housework but he does the big cleaning as our little one is a bit of a handbag at the moment so while he is vaccumming ,mopping and dusting I am dealing with the kids. and when the kids don't need me I am helping him.. So we pretty muc do things 50/50 except for the care of one child..

I once asked him if he thought he did too muc around the house. He said no but you could get me a beer so I get the drinks at night .. silly little things..