Hi all, well yesterday after having an ultrasound I found out I was 11 weeks pregnant

My partner wants me to have a termination. We have been together for 7.5 years we have 3 children 2 are from his previous R'ship they both live with us permanently our elsdest is 11 and then 9 and we had a child Together -Adam who will be 4 in November.

Partner says we struggling now with 3 kids, paying bills and daily living expenses how are we going to cope with 4 kids, bills etc. Not only that but I had Post Natal Depression after adam was born and still have a bit of depression but am on medication for this. We some times do find it hard to parent the 3 children I know sometimes i can find it overwhelming but feel we will make do and adjust as necessery.

My partner is adament that we are not having any more children and that I need to terminate this pregnancy. I already had a termination early in march I was 6 wks for his same reason that i have mentioned above. But I have told him NO I want to have another baby I want to be able to have a 2nd child with him. I feel I have been given a 2nd chance at being a mum again.

I do see to a certain point what my partner is saying about money etc but there is lots of people out there with 5 and 6 + kids i'm sure if they can do it so can we - whichj i have said that to him but his reaction was 'Good for them their idiots' it breaks my heart knowing that i may have to terminate as we are in some debit- bit behind in bills etc and trying to pay them all off before end of year. Oh please can some one help me

what are peoples thoughts can anyone help me

Bec 31