Bec I am so sorry your partner is not supportive of your new pregnancy and wishes you to terminate. What a tough situation you are in. Is his reasoning only financial? I personally would not go through with his requests again if you want to continue with your pregnancy. Your right plenty of people have more children and many of us struggle financially. I guess you need to way up the benefits of another child over the risks of having another baby. Is there a chance you will end up a single mum and struggle emotionally on your own, your partner resent you and the child if you stay together and if so is what a child brings into your lives more valuable then what may happen to your relationship. On the other hand if you terminate your pregnant will you spend a large part of your life with regret and sorrow over loosing your pregnancy you wanted! Just some thoughts. I'm sorry your in this position. For me I think I would continue with the pregnancy but thats me. Financially you might fall behind more with another child but there is plenty of time to claw your way back out. Just my opinion anyway. Goodluck with your decision.
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