Bec - take your time it's a big decision. I hope you guys can work it out. If not, there are lots of single mummys on BB who can help you.

LMS - whatever your views (& you're entitled to them) it's a bit insensitive beating up on a woman going through this. Talk about slamming the barn door after the horse has bolted. Fyi, termination is definately one way to deal with an unwanted pregnancy. The OP wants this pregnancy. The issue is with her DP and them making a decision based on what's best for their family. Not about the right or wrong of termination.