haley, thanks I spent the day thinking about how to rest. I don't work, I nearly wish I did it may be easier. I have booked the kids in for 2 half days of care and I will see if mum and dad will pick them up and have the rest of one day. Dh is going to take a day off work a week and I am trying to think of activities for the kids that involve me just watching!!! Unfortunately relatives and friends are out of the ? this decision of ours is not widely supported and people think we are nuts and maybe this is supposed to happen. I have a friend who said she would have the kids sometimes but she has 2 little ones of her own it may just be too hard. We don't have sex, just because of the risk, warned of it with DS 3, mainly the first trimeseter, but I think with this one it will carry on through for longer. Meals are going to be quick 5 minute jobs as easy as possible. I am seeing a homeopath today to see if she can get me onto something that might help.

Sherrejoy, thanks for the support how did I live through all of this before without BB and this amazing group of understanding people???????