I think you're exactly right Tashy (and I didn't take it as you having a go). I know I spent far too long worrying about what 'could' happen when I was pregnant with DD. None of it happened, so what was the point? And if something had happened, the worry wouldn't have stopped it anyway. I am going to try hard to be completely 'in' every moment should I get pregnant again, to just enjoy it for what it is and love whatever time I have with that baby.

I also realise that there is no way I can know how it feels to experience a loss, unless it happens to me. It did happen to my Mum and I saw the pain my parents went through, I truly feel for anyone who experiences any kind of loss.