How many times have you been pregnant? *Sensitive topic*

[helle]

Having to pick up a tiny little box of ashes instead.

I remember bringing DS home and DH commenting on how much better is was bringing a baby home in a carseat and not in a box. It hadn't actually occured to me how much that had affected him until he said that, picking up Jayvans ashes.

There always seems to be a catagory baby loss mumma's go in. I for one sometimes feel like I'm in limbo. Jayvan was birthed at 17 weeks and 6 days. He didn't get a birth or death certificate, and I never feel justified calling him a stillborn baby because he wasn't term, but I feel he was more than an early early term loss. He had tiny fingernails for christ sake.

Anyway, I've probably just offended a few more people but I'm just trying to get another perspective out there. Let go of what I dwell on a bit