I've been through much much less than they have. I never knew such strength and courage existed. I think of some of you in particular daily, and try to learn from your wisdom and bravery.
No you haven't. None of us have been through any 'less' that the other. We have all had our own journeys and we all deal differently. Just because you haven't had more losses than the next person makes your journey any less difficult FOR YOU. Is is all totally individual and noone has any more or less 'right' to be more or less traumatised or upset by their paths on which life takes them.