thread: My husband & I are fighting because my hospital refused me, & i don't know what to do

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    Jan 2009
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    Oh hon that totally sucks. Others have suggested it and I agree, if you really want to birth at that hospital maybe you could loose that little bit of weight. Many woman have to watch what they are eating if they had GD and because of that they don't gain weight or loose some so I'm sure you could too. You've got plenty of time to give it a go anyway. If the other hospital really isn't a problem then maybe your husband will just have to get used to it. Is traffic really the problem? It seems a little irrational to me? Unless you pop your babies out in 30 mins than I don't see what the worry is to drive a little further. So sorry you are having the drama xoxo

    Sorry hon, just saw your post about the hospital not accepting you even if you do loose the weight. Maybe you can find out if the hospital policy is to not birth woman of a certain weight on the day they labour or if it's a case of a woman being a certain BMI at 17 week etc Surely there is a loop hole?
    Last edited by Cherished; February 7th, 2011 at 05:36 PM.