Not everyone loses sleep Geez, we really lucked out then!

But I know what you mean I try to make sure that if some of those comments slip out (and hey, sometimes they do because I don't want a mum to think that because she has a rough trot with her newborn or baby that her experience is unusual... a non-sleeping baby doesn't require training and it's ok to not feel up there and on track with everything all the time) I always folow up with "but being a mum is the best thing is the world, and even though bonding and love may not happen straight away, when it does you won't believe how firecely you can love and be proud of a tiny little person!". I do always say that a baby throws your life upside down but then I always follow up with, of course, you're adding a new person into the mix, your whole life changes, but its not a bad thing

but I get what you mean. Theres no need for negative comments like "make the most of your life now before you lose it" because you don't lose anything, it just changes.