OMG AliBaby,

I cannot believe that some one actually said that to you!! Having a child with your love/husband/partner whatever, is the most precious part of sharing the relationship, not whether or not "down there" gets ruined. How pathetic someone would say that to you. I know of women whom have elected c-sections but i am sure that is wasn't for that reason.
Gee that has really shocked me, some people really put too much emphasis on sex in a relationship....yes it plays its role but it isn't the be all, end all of a relationship. And besides, natural birth as opposed to ceaser, you are probably back into being intimate long before the scars are healed.

Tash