The comments that bother me the most are when i say im pregnant to some of my friends i get "oh i never want kids, i hate them" or "why would you want a baby for" and i just think well thats great for you and its a little too late now to not want a baby, but i find it really offensive.

But the comments you said are ones i hear constantly and do find off putting, i know that it won't be always peachy that there will be hard times but im not walking into this blindfolded. I think comments like those a better left with the person, unless they are close friends and relatives and then they most the time dont mean it in a harsh way.