haaa funny you made this post as i was at a girlfriends 21st BBQ/Party on friday night
DP had gone out with his mates so i decided to go alone get out of the house with DS anyway majority of my girlfriends LOVEEE seeing Oscar and will steal him off me, talk to him like his one of us, anyway so were sitting around the BBQ table and this friend of my bday friend (whom i have NEVER met) just came out with in front of EVERYONE, what went through your mind to get pregnant at 21, now you cant party, travel, buy a house do all the normal things and most of all SEX will never be the same as your vagina muscles are effed!
I just sat there holding DS, i must of looked amazed as one of my friends rubbed my back and grabbed DS hand, all my response was maybe i cant do all the things a "normal" 21 year old can, but i have a beautiful baby boy! mine and DPs SEX is just as great as before if not MORE amazing as time is precious and never when were going to get the next hit! as for traveling who said a family cant travel just because i wont be partying it up in "ibiza" or going to full moon parties in "bali" doesnt mean we wont be doing family holidays. and a house, what so does everyone with kids rent? because you have kids does it become impossible to buy a house? does the bank stop lending money because you have kids?
i was just so gobsmacked at this girl i had NEVER EVER met saying this to me!
anyway as they got ready to go out clubbing. i took DS home sat on the couch with him and snuggled him and watched a movie!