Both my pregnancies were unplanned.

When I was 20 I ran away to the other side of the country for an adventure, there I met a guy and we decided to drive from Perth back to Brisbane. We weren't really together or anything but at any rate, I fell pregnant. I wasn't sure what I wanted and did visit an abortion clinic only to decide that that wasn't something I could do. He was supportive either way but I could tell he wanted to keep the baby. We decided to try and make a family work. We split up when she was 6 months old but really, never should have been together. I still get along with him and he is active in her life, just definitely not right for each other romantically.

With DD2, DP was supportive at first and there was no doubt in my mind that I would keep her. At around 20w he freaked out when me and DD1 were about to move in, broke up with me in a text and we didn't speak for 4 days. It was a fear response, instant family and all of that. I gave him space even though I was heartbroken and we eventually worked through it. We couldn't be happier now and know it was just meant to be