I like kmn's idea - if fertility clinics could arrange get-togethers of their patients who had recently fallen pg, that would be great.

Or like you said, Sushee - if the clinic could refer you to a support group, that could be really helpful. Especially if it was facilitated by some kind of support worker. I think I would have been interested in that.

I like the doula service idea too, a doula who had some experience of LTTTC or loss herself would be great to talk to.